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Messages for the two conversations that are hardest to start

Apologies and birthday messages, organised by what actually changes the wording: who you are writing to, what happened, which tone fits, and which language they think in.

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Birthday messages — by relationship

Each page below is written for that specific relationship, and opens into tone, language, milestone age variations from there.

Partners

Birthday messages for girlfriendBirthday messages for boyfriendBirthday messages for wifeBirthday messages for husbandBirthday messages for partnerBirthday messages for crushBirthday messages for fiancéBirthday messages for fiancéeBirthday messages for himBirthday messages for herBirthday messages for lover

Family

Birthday messages for momBirthday messages for dadBirthday messages for motherBirthday messages for fatherBirthday messages for brotherBirthday messages for sisterBirthday messages for bhaiBirthday messages for didiBirthday messages for bhaiyaBirthday messages for younger brotherBirthday messages for elder brotherBirthday messages for younger sisterBirthday messages for elder sisterBirthday messages for cousinBirthday messages for cousin brotherBirthday messages for cousin sisterBirthday messages for brother-in-lawBirthday messages for sister-in-lawBirthday messages for bhabhiBirthday messages for jijuBirthday messages for sonBirthday messages for daughterBirthday messages for nephewBirthday messages for nieceBirthday messages for grandmotherBirthday messages for grandfatherBirthday messages for uncleBirthday messages for auntBirthday messages for father-in-lawBirthday messages for mother-in-law

Friends

Birthday messages for best friendBirthday messages for friendBirthday messages for bestieBirthday messages for childhood friendBirthday messages for school friendBirthday messages for college friendBirthday messages for roommate

Work

Birthday messages for colleagueBirthday messages for bossBirthday messages for teacherBirthday messages for mentorBirthday messages for seniorBirthday messages for juniorBirthday messages for client
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Sorry messages — by relationship

Each page below is written for that specific relationship, and opens into tone, language and situation variations from there.

Partners

Sorry messages for girlfriendSorry messages for boyfriendSorry messages for wifeSorry messages for husbandSorry messages for partnerSorry messages for crushSorry messages for fiancéSorry messages for fiancéeSorry messages for himSorry messages for her

Family

Sorry messages for momSorry messages for dadSorry messages for motherSorry messages for fatherSorry messages for brotherSorry messages for sisterSorry messages for bhaiSorry messages for didiSorry messages for brother-in-lawSorry messages for sister-in-lawSorry messages for bhabhiSorry messages for sonSorry messages for daughter

Friends

Sorry messages for best friendSorry messages for friendSorry messages for bestieSorry messages for college friendSorry messages for roommate

Work

Sorry messages for colleagueSorry messages for bossSorry messages for teacherSorry messages for seniorSorry messages for client
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Other occasions

Anniversary

Anniversary messages for girlfriendAnniversary messages for boyfriendAnniversary messages for wifeAnniversary messages for husband

Miss You

Miss You messages for girlfriendMiss You messages for boyfriendMiss You messages for wifeMiss You messages for husbandMiss You messages for best friendMiss You messages for friendMiss You messages for partnerMiss You messages for crushMiss You messages for brotherMiss You messages for sisterMiss You messages for momMiss You messages for dad

Propose

Propose messages for girlfriendPropose messages for boyfriendPropose messages for crushPropose messages for wifePropose messages for husbandPropose messages for partnerPropose messages for himPropose messages for her

Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day messages for girlfriendValentine's Day messages for boyfriendValentine's Day messages for wifeValentine's Day messages for husband

Wedding

Wedding messages for best friendWedding messages for brotherWedding messages for sister

Best Friend

Best Friend messages for best friendBest Friend messages for friend

Girlfriend Surprise

Girlfriend Surprise messages for girlfriend

Boyfriend Surprise

Boyfriend Surprise messages for boyfriend

Rakhi

Rakhi messages for brotherRakhi messages for sisterRakhi messages for bhaiRakhi messages for didiRakhi messages for cousin brotherRakhi messages for cousin sisterRakhi messages for brother in lawRakhi messages for sister in law

Raksha Bandhan

Raksha Bandhan messages for brotherRaksha Bandhan messages for sisterRaksha Bandhan messages for bhaiRaksha Bandhan messages for didiRaksha Bandhan messages for cousin brotherRaksha Bandhan messages for cousin sisterRaksha Bandhan messages for brother in lawRaksha Bandhan messages for sister in law

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Every message on this site ends up in the same chat window as thirty others. A BuildNectic page does not — their name, your photos, your words, and an animation they open themselves, delivered as one private link.

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